Thursday, March 24, 2011

Bulletin for Sunday, March 27, 2011

3rd Sunday in Lent

Friends,

This week in El Salvador President Obama will visit the tomb of Archbishop
Oscar Romero, after whom our church is named. It is said that Romero, who
had been elected in the expectation that he would be the sort of bishop who
would not make waves, had something of a conversion experience over the body
of Fr. Rutilio Grande, the first Salvadoran priest to be martyred. Some
people believe that when he realized that his friend had given his life for
the poor of El Salvador, he became aware that he, too, had to stand with the
poor. After that, his voice grew stronger and stronger. He made many enemies
as he fearlessly began to walk with oppressed people and speak in their
defense. He said things like, "The church that does not unite itself to the
poor in order to denounce from the place of the poor the injustice committed
against them is not truly the church of Jesus Christ." The whole country
listened to his sermons. On Sunday morning you could walk down the street
and hear his voice coming out of every house, as he spoke about the truth of
the situation in El Salvador. Finally on March 23, 1980, he spoke a direct
challenge to the soldiers who were torturing and killing people. He told
them that God's law outweighed orders from their superiors. "In the name of
God," he told them, "I beg you ­ I ORDER you ­ STOP THE OPPRESSION."
The next day an assassin shot him through the heart as he stood at the altar
at the Divine Providence Hospital offering Mass.

Before he died, Monseñor Romero said, "If they kill me, I will rise again in
the Salvadoran people." And it turned out he was right. His memory is alive
and life-giving. There are statues, memorials and murals in his memory all
over the country. His name is like a code word for caring about the poor.

In 2005 I visited his little house on the grounds of the Divine Providence
Hospital in San Salvador. It is full of relics of his life ­ all his little
possessions, lovingly preserved and on display. Most of them seemed strange
to me, kind of foreign. But then something stopped me in my tracks. It was a
pair of clip-on sunglasses, very ordinary. I could have bought them at the
grocery store here in Rochester. I looked at those sunglasses and felt the
immediacy, the reality and closeness of his life and work. His work is not
foreign. His concerns are still concerns today. The poor still suffer, in El
Salvador and all over the world. That horrible dichotomy between the people
who have much materially and have the power to shape the world their way,
and the voiceless, powerless poor ­ that's still ours, today. What are we
going to do about it?

The message of liberation theology is that such questions are appropriate
for the church, are in fact crucial to the life of the church. We cannot
claim to be following Jesus, and ignore the desperate cries of the people,
the poor of Latin America, of Africa and India and our own cities. We need
to ask hard questions about economic justice. We need to be willing to
suffer, ourselves, to let go of the excess we take for granted. And first of
all, we need to leave our comfort zones and walk with people who are
different from us, and be in relationship, and learn, and see our sisters
and brothers for the people that they are ­ God's own beloved children, just
like us.

Here at Oscar Romero Church we hope to do that in our small way by bringing
Mass in Spanish to people who are not attending church because they are
afraid of deportation. You are welcome to join us in that project, which
will begin later in the spring.

My prayer for President Obama as he visits the tomb of Monseñor Romero this
week is that he, too, will have a conversion experience, and be on fire for
the poor. May we as a nation become aware of our neighbors to the South as
our neighbors, as people with the same desires we have for life, for
education and health care and houses, for hope --- and not as the possessors
of resources to take for ourselves, or as a threat to our own well-being.
May our relationship change, for better and for good.

I am so grateful for the example of Monseñor Romero. A newspaper headline
called him a "human rights activist" ­ which is kind of like calling Gandhi
a community organizer. He was a priest, a bishop, a shepherd, a martyr and a
prophet. Above all, he was a pastor who walked with his people, who gave
them his voice, his energy, his life. Saint Romero, pray for us.

Blessings and love to all,
Chava


We hope you will join us this Thursday, March 24, as we celebrate the memory
of Oscar Romero on the 31st anniversary of his assassination. Please come at
5:30 for pot luck (bring a dish to pass) and at 7 pm for Mass.

Friday night our Lenten Fish Fries for Joe continue, from 6 to 7:30 pm. $8
per dinner, no one turned away. We've been having a lot of fun at these and
hope you will join us.

The links below are to articles about two of my sister priests, Theresa
Novak Chabot in New Hampshire, and Gabriella Velardi Ward in New York City.
Take a look and see some of the wonderful things that are happening!
http://www.concordmonitor.com <http://www.concordmonitor.com/>
and
http://blogs.wsj.com/metropolis/2011/03/18/a-priest-finds-her-own-flock/?mod
=google_news_blog


"The Church cannot remain silent before injustice. To remain silent is to be
an accomplice."
~ Monseñor Oscar Romero

Have a blessed week, and come visit us some Sunday!
____________________________________________________________
Oscar Romero Church
An Inclusive Church in the Catholic Tradition
Mass: Sundays, 11 am
St Joseph's House of Hospitality, 402 South Ave, Rochester NY 14603

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Bulletin for Sunday, March 20, 2011

2nd Sunday in Lent

Friends,

This past Sunday after Mass as we sat having breakfast, we attempted to make
a decision about what to do with our tithing money. Having $120 in the bank
($50 of which was donated specifically towards Eli's trip to El Salvador),
we were trying to decide what to do with the $12 we will give away. One
person wanted to wait until we had $200 in the bank, so that our tithe would
be $20. Another thought we should tithe on our funds as they come in: if
someone gives us ten dollars, we'll give away one, and not worry about how
small an amount it is. Someone else thought that we should just give it all
away, perhaps to Joseph for his asylum appeal. One person said that I should
do that, and I told him it's not my decision to make. The decision belongs
to the group.

Some things became clear as I listened to the discussion. First, we can't
make decisions over breakfast. It's too chaotic, too casual, and besides, at
breakfast we should just chat and find out how each other are doing. It's a
disservice both to whatever we're trying to decide, and to the community
breakfast time. We need to set a time aside to focus on decisions.

And then, before we decide anything we need to talk about how we make
decisions. Do we want to try for consensus? Do we want to vote? Or, possibly
some mixture of the two.  When we chose our name, we came to consensus ­ but
there were only four people making the decision, and we came to it easily.
The past two Sundays we've had fourteen people, and now there are
differences of opinion. How shall we be church in this? How about if we take
a little time in between Mass and Coffee Hour this Sunday, and talk about
how we make decisions together. I'll bet there are some great ideas just
waiting to be born!


This week will be our last "normal" Sunday for a few weeks. On March 27
there will be a Pancake Breakfast happening all morning in the dining room
(it's a fundraiser for Haiti--come!) so we will celebrate Mass up on the
third floor. If you come late that week, just keep going up until you run
out of stairs. The living room is just around the corner and I'm sure you'll
be able to hear us! The two Sundays after that, April 3 and 10, Eli and I
will be in El Salvador and Deacon Patti LaRosa will come and lead a
Communion Service. Please do come and celebrate with Patti!

This past Friday we had our first Fish Fry for Joe. I have to tell you, Peg
Gefell is one of the best cooks in Upstate New York, and this might be the
best fish fry you've ever had. $8 per dinner, no one turned away. 6-7:30 pm
every Friday in Lent. This is a fundraiser for our friend and brother Joseph
Moore, so he can appeal his asylum decision. We hope you'll come and support
Joe and have some truly wonderful fish and cole slaw.

Our Feast Day Mass is coming up soon, Thursday March 24.  We hope you will join us on the 24th. 5:30pm Pot Luck, 7:00 pm Mass. We are still looking for musicians for that day.  Please let me know if you'd like to play.

Blessings and love to all,
Chava

"You shall walk your days in joy and you shall begin each day in peace. The
world around you, even the mountains and the hills shall not restrain their
song and the trees shall dance with you. Rather than injury there will be
strength, instead of harm there will be healing."       Isaiah 55:12-13

Wednesday morning breakfasts are back on, if you'd like to practice your
Spanish. 8:00am, Pat's Coffee Mug on Clinton Ave.

Have a blessed week, and come visit us some Sunday!

__________________________________________________________
Oscar Romero Church
An Inclusive Church in the Catholic Tradition
Mass: Sundays, 11 am
St Joseph's House of Hospitality, 402 South Ave, Rochester NY 14603

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Bulletin for Sunday, March 13, 2011


1st Sunday in Lent

Friends,

Hooray! It's Lent! I love this time of year. For one thing, spring is
coming! This afternoon there were birds flying around and singing on my
street, and daffodil shoots are showing where there are bare patches in the
snow. Before we know it there will be crocuses and tulips and forget-me-nots
and lilacs and roses, even. The snow is still falling but we all know what's
true about spring: you can't hold it back!

The other great thing about Lent is Lent itself. It's such a great time for
getting close to God. I like to think of Lenten disciplines as a chance to
clean out the clutter. You know how good it feels when you get a closet all
cleaned out, and you can find things in it again? That's Lent!

Some years I've taken Lent seriously, and other years I've let it slide.
When Easter comes around I find it feels a lot better if I've had the kind
of Lent with lots of letting go of unnecessary things, and bringing in some
good new things.

The three disciplines of Lent are prayer, fasting and almsgiving. Here's a
suggestion for prayer: have a set time each day, even if it's just five
minutes, to be quiet with God. Just open your hands and heart and let God
in. Bask in the presence of the One who loves you. God will be basking in
your presence, too!

Here's another thought: pray with others. Come to Mass more often, or join
in Lectio Divina, or join us for morning prayer at St Joe's on Mondays and
Wednesdays at 7:30 am. There's a wonderful energy when we pray together.

Lent is a great time to do some spiritual reading, too. Pick a book and make
it yours. Mark it up, write to God in the margins. (Um, if it's your own,
that is!) I'll add a list of some good books at the end of the bulletin ­
maybe one of them will speak to you.

Lenten fasts can take lots of different forms. Besides fasting from sugar or
coffee or meat or snacks or whatever, one can fast from complaining ­ or
from buying extra things ­ or from negative thoughts. If there's someone who
particularly drives you crazy, spend some time praying for them each day in
Lent. Ask God to give them a great day! I find praying like that helps me to
be softer with people I find difficult.

Lastly, almsgiving. Find some ways to give beyond what you normally do.
Maybe set some money aside each day. Skip buying coffee and give that money
away. Be generous! Let it be a generous, giving Lent.

The point is not spiritual calisthenics. The point is getting close to God!
There's a very old prayer: "Who are you, O God? And who am I?" Find out a
bit more about yourself and about this God that's so crazy about us all,
this Lent.


One way to do a little giving this March and April is to join us at St Joe's
on Friday nights for a fish fry. Our friend and brother, Joseph Moore, is
trying to stay in this country. He came here about twenty years ago from
Liberia. His asylum petition was recently denied, and it's going to be
expensive to appeal. But we want to do everything we can to help him, so on
the Fridays of Lent we'll have a fish fry. $8 per person, no one turned
away; eat in or take out. We're hoping to have music some of these Fridays ­ so stay tuned! And make sure to tell anyone you think might be interested.


And remember to save Thursday, March 24 if you'd like to join us for a 5:30
pot-luck and 7pm Mass.

Blessings and love to all,
Chava


Here are some suggestions for spiritual reading this Lent ­ just some books
I've liked and want to recommend:

"The Irresistible Revolution" by Shane Claiborne is one of the
most electrifying books I've read. Read Shane and get all excited about
changing the world!

"An Altar in the World" by Barbara Brown Taylor has some lovely reflective
pieces and would be good to read either alone, or with others ­ you could
talk about one chapter at a time. Read her on suffering ­

Another book that would be great for a Small Christian Community to read
together is "The World as it Should Be: Living Authentically in the Here-and
Now Kingdom of God" by Gregory Pierce

"My Life With the Saints" by James Martin is a good read. And if you like
saints, Robert Ellsberg's "All Saints" is excellent.

If you like something structured, Joyce Rupp's book, "Open the Door," has
prayers and things for each day for six weeks. I got a lot out of that book.

Lastly, just about anything by Richard Rohr, Anne Lamott or Robert Wicks
will take you deeper and enrich your Lent.


Our Wednesday morning Spanish-practice breakfasts will start up again on
March 16.

Have a blessed week, and come visit us some Sunday!

_______________________________________________________
 
Oscar Romero Church
An Inclusive Church in the Catholic Tradition
Mass: Sundays, 11 am
St Joseph's House of Hospitality, 402 South Ave, Rochester NY 14603

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Bulletin for Sunday, March 6, 2011

9th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Friends,

This past Friday was a very snowy day here in Rochester, and driving down my
street I slid on some super-compacted snow and got stuck in a snow bank.
Independent me, I tried and tried to get out, but finally had to admit I
needed help. One of my neighbors came and pushed me out. People on my street
seem to help each other a lot like that. So often I come out in the morning
and find that someone has cleared out my driveway. My next-door neighbor
mows my lawn in the summer, and when I bake bread I bring a loaf next door
to his family. Connections like that are part of what makes life good.

After I got out of that snow bank on Friday, I drove on in to work at St
John's Home where I'm a chaplain. I almost didn't go in, because of the
snow! But I was so glad that I did, because it turned out to be the day of
the annual Talent Show. People were singing and dancing and acting silly,
performing for each other. It reminded me of years ago at Corpus Christi
when we had some very silly Variety Shows, with ridiculous skits and
hilarious versions of movies like "Gone with the Wind." Laughing together is
one of the great treasures of community. It's gold in the bank for the hard
times that all communities go through.

Here at St. Romero's our Coffee Hour after Sunday Mass has turned into a
communal breakfast. Linda or Eli make some scrambled eggs. Rachael makes
toast, and Mark puts the coffee on. Then we sit and eat and talk. It's one
of the benefits of being such a small community! I believe that relaxing
together and enjoying each others' company is as important to community as
worshiping together, or working together to heal the world in more serious
ways. This helps to heal the world, too.

I hope that on Thursday, March 24, some of you who get this bulletin will
join us for a special Mass and Pot Luck. That day is the 31st anniversary of
the day Monseñor Oscar Romero was shot and killed while celebrating Mass,
because of his courageous voice in support of the poor of El Salvador. So
that means March 24 is our feast day. We will celebrate our newborn
existence as a community. You are most welcome to bring a dish to pass and
join us at 5:30 for supper, and to be here for Mass at 7pm.

Scott Peck said, "In community lies the healing of the world." Whether it's
the communities of our neighborhoods, or our workplaces, or our churches, we
need to be connected to each other. We need to dig each other out of snow
banks, and laugh together, and sit and eat and talk together. I'm so
grateful for all the community in my life! And I hope you'll come and help
build community with us, too.

Blessings and love to all,
Chava


"If I can't dance, I don't want to be part of your revolution!"
--Mother Jones


At 7 pm on March 9 you are welcome to come out to East Rochester to observe
Ash Wednesday with Mary Magdalene Church. I'll be celebrating Mass there
that night. Come and make a great start to Lent!

Our Wednesday morning Spanish-practice breakfasts will start up again on
March 16.

Have a blessed week, and come visit us some Sunday!

_____________________________________________________________
Oscar Romero Church
An Inclusive Church in the Catholic Tradition
Mass: Sundays, 11 am
St Joseph's House of Hospitality, 402 South Ave, Rochester NY 14603